Both individual and partnered sessions last 50 minutes. Clients typically meet with me once every two weeks. After several months, appointments may taper off to once a month, otherwise known as "maintenance" sessions. The overall duration of therapy will depend on the client, but given the nature of intensive work, the typical range is 6-12 months.

The individual rate is $120. The partnered rate is $150. Like most sexologists, I am not a diagnostician, and you will NOT be diagnosed with a mental health disorder. Consequently, your insurance cannot be billed, and you cannot be reimbursed through your insurance carrier via a superbill, etc.

At the moment, I am exclusively offering virtual appointments using a secure, HIPPA-compliant platform. Most clients choose to turn on their camera, but it is not a requirement. Morning and afternoon appointments are available Monday, Tuesday, and Thursday, and some evening appointments are available on Tuesdays and Thursdays.

I work with adults across the globe! Specifically, I provide services for couples who are frustrated with their sex life, individuals questioning their gender or sexual identity, survivors of purity culture; kinky and kink-curious folks. For details about the specific issues I address, please peruse my services page.

I will ask you to describe your current challenges and therapeutic goals. It’s okay if you’re still grappling with what you want out of therapy or struggling to communicate your experiences. Sex and gender can be difficult topics to discuss for a myriad of reasons. My aim is to listen, understand, and meet you where you are. If your needs fall within the scope of my practice, and if you feel the vibes are right, we can schedule a future session. Alternatively, you can connect with me at a later date. There’s no pressure to make an immediate decision.

You can expect to be treated with dignity, respect, and understanding. We will address your goals (which may change over time) and strategies for success. I utilize motivational interviewing techniques and compassionate Socratic questioning to help you get to the bottom of your challenges. I also provide various surveys, applicable resources, practical skills, and relevant “homework” to be completed outside of session. Beyond these universal components, sessions are highly individualized and catered to you and your specific needs.

Hell yes! I am a certified kink-affirming provider, and I identify as being a part of both communities. That said, neither community is a monolith, and the ultimate expert of your experience is YOU. You can rest assured that you won't have to teach me Queer 101 or Intro to Kink, but I will also not make assumptions about you based on my knowledge and personal experience.

No. Sex therapists are often confused for sex workers, but we perform different jobs and serve different roles. I love working WITH sex workers, but I am not one myself. So, if you’re looking for physical touch or sexual stimulation, I’m not the right provider for you. If you have more questions about the scope of my duties, please feel free to inquire during the initial consultation.

The DSM-5 identifies eight paraphilic disorders. I personally define paraphilias as non-consensual sexual behaviors or sexual compulsions that cause unwanted harm. These issues fall outside of the scope of my practice and are best treated by a specialist. That said, the mental health community and sexology as a field have historically pathologized normal human practices (e.g., crossdressing, shoe fetishism, edge play, so-called nymphomania). I am passionate about working with folks whose kinks and fetishes may not be considered mainstream.