Not your average sex therapy.
You’re not “typical.” Why should your therapy be?
You’ve been bucking the system since day one. Coloring outside of the lines is your modus operandi. But when it comes to sex or gender, it feels lonely and even scary to forge your own path.
You’re keeping secrets. You’re keeping quiet. You’re feeling broken, abnormal, and confused. It’s total bullshit.
You want to get your freak on (cue Missy Elliot), but these feelings of shame won’t let you relax. “What the hell is wrong with me?” you wonder.
Our gender and sexuality are some of the most tender and vulnerable parts of our identity. It’s where we ask the questions, “Am I loveable?” “Am I desirable?” “Am I enough?”
We look to friends, family, lovers, and society for answers. We’re given a script to follow. Assurances that we’ll find acceptance if we do a,b,c or look like x,y,z.
Maybe you’ve been following that script for a while. Masking who you really are. But it’s exhausting. It’s boring. It’s taking a toll.
I’m here to help you write another story. One that centers you and who you really are. One that leads you to a happy ending on your terms. One that doesn’t require you to sacrifice your identity to find belonging.
Let’s uncover your uniqueness. Dust off that freak flag. Hoist it as high as it will wave. Sink into a life full of confidence, authenticity, and unapologetic PLEASURE.
You’re worth it. Every bit.
Dr. Annie Snow (she/her)
Sex and Gender Guide
Hi, y’all! I’m a certified sexologist and the face behind Snow Counseling Alternatives. I love working with kinky, neurodivergent, queer, and questioning folks. Anyone who has ever felt like they didn’t quite belong or proudly marched to the beat of their own drum. You’re my people <3
I believe you deserve pleasure just like everyone else. Without trying to fit into some heteronormative or neurotypical mold. Without having to justify your unique needs and desires.
Whether you’re questioning your gender or sexuality, navigating kink in a vanilla world, or wanting to center your own pleasure after catering to the sexist expectations of cishet men, I can’t wait to help you find solutions that actually work for you!
Services
Sexual Confidence
Has your sexual confidence taken a hit recently? Have you been trying to conform to sexual standards that just don’t work for you?
Gender Exploration
Do you have questions about your gender identity? Do you need help navigating a social or medical transition?
Couples Counseling
Are things not clicking like they used to? Do you find yourself fighting about the same thing over and over again with no solution in sight?
“I feel very fortunate to have gotten to work with Annie. Even after just one session I started feeling better and having hope because she made me feel really confident that we would get to the bottom of things.”
—Client review, shared with permission
